Archive for February, 2010

You Are Qualified!

Sunday, February 28th, 2010

The Lord does not look at the things man looks at
1 Samuel 16:7 NIV

Some of the greatest people in the Bible considered themselves unqualified. Moses told God he wasn’t a good speaker. Gideon told God he didn’t have the right family background. Jeremiah told God he felt as helpless as a child. Paul described himself as the chief of sinners and the least of the apostles. Everyone, including Samuel the prophet, thought David wasn’t qualified to become king. But God thought differently!

We decided to retell the story about a newly hired travelling salesman who sent his first sales report to the head office, because its truth is timeless. When the report reached them they were stunned. The new salesman wrote, ‘I seen this outfit which ain’t never bot nuthin from us and I sole them a lotta goods. Now I’m going to Chicawgo.’ Before the sales manager could fire him, along came a second report. ‘I come here to Chicawgo and sole them over a millyun.’ Fearful if he fired the salesman and concerned if he didn’t, the sales manager dumped the problem into the lap of the company president. The following morning the sales department was amazed to see a memo from the president posted on the bulletin board beside the salesman’s two letters. It said, ‘We ben spending two much time tryin to spel and not enuf tryin to sel. Let’s watch those sails. I want everybody should read these two letters from Gooch, who is on the rode doin a grate job for us, and you should go out and do like he dun.’ Degrees and titles are fine things, but armed with intuition and initiative, plus God’s help, you are qualified!

A View from the Pew: Financial & Giving Statistics of 750 Christian Households by Brian Kluth

Saturday, February 27th, 2010

A View from the Pew: Financial & Giving Statistics of 750 Christian Households by Brian Kluth

God Experiences

Saturday, February 27th, 2010

Did not our heart burn while He talked with us?
Luke 24:32 NKJV

Mobile phones, laptops, hand-held PCs and electronic organisers can become our slave drivers. We need to stop and ask ourselves, ‘Can God interrupt me? Can He get my attention short of a catastrophe?’ Some of your ‘God experiences’ will happen when you’re preoccupied with something else. So pray that you’ll be sensitive enough to realise it’s God, and respond to Him rather than the pressures around you. If you decide to pursue your own agenda instead of God’s, don’t be surprised when you run into a brick wall and end up asking, ‘What went wrong?’ The answer is, you didn’t take time for God!

Look at Mary and Martha when Jesus visited their home in Bethany. Martha’s focus was on cooking dinner for Him; Mary’s was on soaking up every word He spoke. Now both are necessary, but when forced to choose between the two the Lord will always choose the one who sits at His feet in adoration and learns from Him. Listen to the words of a couple who’d just encountered Christ on the Emmaus Road following His resurrection, yet they didn’t recognise Him: ‘…Did not our heart burn within us while He talked with us on the road?”‘ (Luke 24:32 NKJV). God can give you a solution or a strategy ‘on the road’ that will solve a problem waiting for you at work. He can de-stress you so you sail confidently through a test in school. He can give you direction for the future while you’re doing mundane things around the house. All He requires is that you be sensitive to Him, available to Him, and responsive to Him.

Surveying the Damage in Haiti

Friday, February 26th, 2010

Surveying the Damage in Haiti

Get rid of distractions that keep your ministry from being fruitful By Rick Warren

Friday, February 26th, 2010

Jesus says that distractions can keep our fruit from ripening: “The seed that falls among weeds stands for those who hear the word of God but the worries and the riches and the pleasures of life crowd in and choke them and their fruit never ripens.” (Luke 8:14, Good News) If we want to be fruitful in ministry, then we need to get rid of the weeds in our lives and make room for what’s important.

What limits your spiritual growth? What chokes your relationship with Jesus? What prevents you from being effective in ministry? Think about your schedule. Your weeds are the activities that crowd out time for prayer, Bible study, family time, and a healthy balance in your life.

Charles Garfield once wrote a book called Peak Performers. In it he wrote about his study of peak performers and he found that among their common characteristics was the ability to remain balanced. They kept their lives in balance between professional and personal, vocations and hobbies.

Jesus says the weeds that distract us tend to fall into three categories –

First, worry distracts us – When you worry, it keeps you from being fruitful. Worry is revealed by whatever stresses you out. It could be your bills, your health, your kids – whatever you fret about on a regular basis. Worry will keep you from serving God like you should because worry keeps you from growing in faith.

The Bible says, “Give your burdens to the Lord, and he will take care of you.” (Psalm 55:22) The antidote to worry is trust. Give your worries to God

Second, greed distracts us – Greed can consume our lives and choke out our desire to live for God. I’ve met pastors who let their churches die because they were so busy traveling and speaking just to make more money. The Bible says we do ministry because we’re eager to serve God, not for what we can get out of it. (1 Peter 5:2)

Third, ‘pleasure of life’ can distract us – We need to maintain a balance. God wants us to have times of rest, including a weekly Sabbath. But is there any chance you’re spending too much time on hobbies? Or on pet projects that have become a hobby? Even overwork can become a ‘pleasure of life’ if you’re doing it because it makes you feel good and gets you praise from others. What is your motive? Are you maintaining a balance between work and recreation? Ask your family and see what they have to say about how you spend your time.

I’ve found when I neglect my quiet time, my health, and the key relationships in my life, weeds start to grow. I start to get distracted. I need to return to balance.

Your ministry is too important to let yourself be distracted from the things God created you to do. God called you and he gifted you for ministry. He wants you to succeed. He will give you discernment this week as you determine what things may be distracting you from being as effective and fruitful as God intends for you to be.

The Pastor’s Weekly Briefing

Friday, February 26th, 2010

The Pastor’s Weekly Briefing

Anyway Love by Gary Thomas

Friday, February 26th, 2010

To love anyway is to love like God – and to learn about God’s love for us.

Note: Names have been changed.

On Valentine’s Day, Meg* went all out, giving her husband, Peter,* his favorite candy and tickets to a hockey game. Later that night, she wrapped herself in a special outfit purchased just for the occasion.

Peter got her a card.

At the grocery store.

That he purchased on the way home from work.

He didn’t add anything to it, either. He just signed it, “Peter.”

A couple of days later, Meg tried to explain that she felt a little taken for granted. Apparently, Peter misunderstood her intent because two months later, when they celebrated their anniversary, Peter didn’t get Meg anything.

“How could you not get me anything for our anniversary?” she asked Peter the next day. “Especially after our conversation about Valentine’s Day.”

“Well, I thought about getting you something, but it didn’t work out,” he replied. “And then I knew not to get you a card because you said you didn’t like that last time.”

“It’s not that I didn’t like the card. It’s that the card alone seemed a little sparse. But even that is better than nothing …”

Several months later, Meg had a birthday. This time, Peter got her a present – a kitchen tool set. Several weeks before, Meg had asked to borrow Peter’s tape measure and screwdriver. Peter figured that Meg should have her own small set of kitchen tools so she didn’t have to borrow his.

Meg recounted all this and then explained how she had tried to get her husband to read several how-to books on loving your spouse. He would read the first few pages, lose interest and never pick the book up again.

“I’ve realized this is never going to change,” she confessed. “But I love him anyway.”

Because …
That last statement of Meg’s, “but I love him anyway,” is one of the most profound theological statements on marriage I’ve ever heard. Most of us base love on because, not on anyway. I love you because you’re good to me. I love you because you’re kind, because you’re considerate, because you keep the romance alive.

But in Luke 6:32-36, Jesus says we shouldn’t love because. We should love anyway. If we love someone because that person is good to us, or gives back to us, or is kind to us, we’re acting no better than anyone else. In essence, Jesus is saying you don’t need the Holy Spirit to love a man who remembers every anniversary – not just the anniversary of your marriage, but the anniversary of your first date and your first kiss. Any woman could love a man like that. Or if you love a wife who lavishes you with sports gifts, who goes out of her way to make you comfortable when you get home from work and who wants sex anytime you do – well, you’re doing what any man would do. There’s no special credit in that!

But if you love a spouse who disappoints you, who can be a little self-absorbed – now you’re loving anyway. In doing that, you’re following the model of the heavenly Father, who loves the ungrateful and the wicked.

… Or Anyway
Will you love only because? Or are you willing to love anyway? Will you love a man or woman who doesn’t appreciate your sacrifice? Will you love a husband or wife who takes you for granted? Will you love a spouse who isn’t nearly as kind to you as you are to him or her?

Just about every faithless marriage is based on because love. Christians are called to anyway love. That’s what makes us different. That’s what gives glory to God. That’s what helps us appreciate God’s love for us, because God loves us anyway. He gives and gives and gives – and we take Him for granted. He is eager to meet with us, and we get too busy to notice Him. He is good to us, and we accuse Him mercilessly when something doesn’t go just the way we planned it.

But God loves us anyway. To love anyway is to love like God – and to learn about God’s love for us.

That’s love, the way God intended it.

Emotional Lockdown

Friday, February 26th, 2010

Jericho was tightly shut up
Joshua 6:1 NIV

The Bible says, ‘… Jericho was tightly shut up… No one went out and no one came in’ (Joshua 6:1 NIV). Have you ever heard of the ‘Jericho syndrome’? It’s when you’re on emotional lockdown. You’re afraid to reach out or let anybody in. You’ve built a wall so you can’t be hurt again. Look out, because that wall can imprison you, and everybody else in your life. You can get married in Jericho, say the vows, wear the dress, exchange the rings, go on honeymoon, and still have the walls up. So you might think, ‘If he leaves, I’m ready. I’ve got a bank account I didn’t tell him about. I have a back-up plan in case this doesn’t work.’ Jesus said, ‘… a man… is joined to his wife’ (Matthew 19:5 NLT).

But how can you be joined if you can’t be reached because of a wall of bitterness, fear and distrust? ‘Love is patient… it keeps no record of wrongs… Love never fails… ‘ (1 Corinthians 13:4-8 NIV). Love doesn’t work when you live by the philosophy ‘Look for the best but expect the worst’. It’s time for an exorcism! You’ve got to drive out the ghosts of yesterday if you’re to have any hope of a real future together. Forgiving, when you’ve been deeply hurt, is one of the hardest things you’ll ever do, but you must forgive, and keep on forgiving until resentment no longer controls you. ‘… Peter came to Him and said, “Lord, how often shall… I forgive him? Up to seven times?” Jesus said…not… up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven”‘ (Matthew 18:21-22 NKJV). Stop rehearsing your past and give it to the Lord. He’s the wall-toppling, communication-restoring, esteem-building healer of broken hearts and relationships. If you let Him, He will help you to live and love again.

Thursday, February 25th, 2010

Words of Wisdom

Thought for the week: “I have held many things in my hands, and I have lost them all; but whatever I have placed in God’s hands, that I still possess.” – Martin Luther (1483-1546)

“You can’t keep trouble from coming, but you don’t have to give it a chair to sit on.” – From Mickey’s Funnies

“The world makes way for the man who knows where he is going.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson

“The pessimist complains about the wind; the optimist expects the wind to change; the realist adjusts the sails.” – Unknown

“Long-range goals keep you from being frustrated by short-term failures.” – J.C. Penney

“Age wrinkles the body. Quitting wrinkles the soul.” – Douglas MacArthur

“He who trims himself to suit everyone will soon whittle himself away.” – Raymond Hull


2. On the Lighter Side

The following is from comedian Jay Leno:

“With hurricanes, tornados, fires out of control, mud slides, flooding, severe thunderstorms tearing up the country from one end to another, and with the threat of bird flu, swine flu and terrorist attacks, are we sure this is a good time to take God out of the Pledge of Allegiance?”

As the old saying goes, many a true word spoken in jest.


3. When Bad Things Happen

“I am responsible. Although I may not be able to prevent the worst from happening, I am responsible for my attitude toward the inevitable misfortunes that darken life. Bad things do happen; how I respond to them defines my character and the quality of my life. I can choose to sit in perpetual sadness, immobilized by the gravity of my loss, or I can choose to rise from the pain and treasure the most precious gift I have—life itself.”

Walter Anderson, Author of The Confidence Course: Seven Steps to Self-Fulfillment


4. Lies Told Often Enough

Every now and then something happens that demonstrates the validity of old familiar sayings—some of which almost merit being called adages, like what the father of Russian communism, Vladimir Lenin, said: “A lie told often enough becomes truth.” He probably borrowed that a few years earlier from William James, the father of modern psychology, who said, “There’s nothing so absurd that if you repeat it often enough, people will believe it.”

Source: American News Commentary, Vol 13, No. 12. To subscribe click on: american_news-subscribe@yahoogroups.com.


5. In an Average Lifetime

Consider a few excerpts from Tom Heymann’s book, In An Average Lifetime. Mr. Heymann has analyzed several aspects of life, and has calculated what an individual does in a typical lifetime. The average American individual:

spends three years in business meetings
spends 13 years watching television
spends $89,281 on food
consumes 109,354 pounds of food
makes 1811 trips to McDonalds
spends $6,881 in vending machines
eats 35,138 cookies and 1,483 pounds
of candy
catches 304 colds
is involved in six motor vehicle accidents
is hospitalized eight times (men) or twelve
times (women)
spends 24 years sleeping
With all of this activity, or lack thereof, it is important to remember that life is brief at best. Are we doing the really important things with the time we have been given?

“Whereas you do not know what will happen tomorrow. For what is your life? It is even a vapor that appears for a little time and then vanishes away” (James 4:14).
– Cited on KneEmail, http://forthright.net/kneemail


6. Filling Holes

By Michael Josephson of Character Counts (635.3)

Sam, a supervisor, was dumbfounded as he watched Bill diligently dig holes while Chuck, after waiting a short interval, filled them. When he demanded an explanation, Bill said, “We’ve been doing this job for 10 years. What’s your problem?”

“Are you telling me that for 10 years you’ve been digging and filling empty holes?” Sam replied.

“Well, not exactly,” Bill said. “Until a few months ago, another fellow put a bush in the hole before Chuck filled it. But he retired and was never replaced.”

“Why didn’t you tell somebody?” Sam sputtered.

“You’re management,” Bill answered. “We figured you knew.”

While management is ultimately to blame when employees systematically waste time and money in thoughtless unproductive activity, we can’t let Bill and Chuck off the hook. Sure, it’s easy to hide behind the assumption that management stupidity has no bounds, but responsibility is a personal burden everyone carries.

Too many organizations are weighed down by practices equivalent to digging and filling holes because too many workers and managers engage in, or ignore inefficient and ineffective activities.

Whether unaccountability is fed by laziness, ignorance, or fear, employees who surrender to the negative momentum of the workplace not only demean the value of their work, but increase the likelihood that they’ll someday be out of work.

We can avoid our responsibilities, but we can’t avoid the consequences of avoiding our responsibilities. All of us are accountable for what we allow as well as what we do. If we want to make our lives more meaningful, we should be sure our work is meaningful.

This is Michael Josephson reminding you that character counts.

© 2009 Josephson Institute of Ethics; reprinted with permission. Michael Josephson, one of the nation’s leading ethicists, is the founder of the Josephson Institute of Ethics and the premier youth character education program, CHARACTER COUNTS! For further information visit www.charactercounts.org

7. Use It or Lose It

Sample of Daily Encounter by Dick Innes

“‘So I was afraid and went out and hid your talent in the ground. See, here is what belongs to you.’ His master replied, .’Take the talent from him and give it to the one who has the ten talents. For everyone who has will be given more, and he will have an abundance. Whoever does not have, even what he has will be taken from him.’”1

“Unamuno, the Spanish philosopher, tells about the Roman aqueduct at Segovia, in his native Spain. It was built in AD109. For eighteen hundred years, it carried cool water from the mountains to the hot and thirsty city. Nearly sixty generations of men drank from its flow.

“Then came another generation, a recent one, who said, ‘This aqueduct is so great a marvel that it ought to be preserved for our children, as a museum piece. We shall relieve it of its centuries-long labor.’ They did; they laid modern iron pipes. They gave the ancient bricks and mortar a reverent rest. And the aqueduct began to fall apart. The sun beating on the dry mortar caused it to crumble. The bricks and stone sagged and threatened to fall. What ages of service could not destroy idleness disintegrated.”2

God has given everyone at least one talent. While some people may have ten talents and others only one, we are all responsible for what we do with what we have been given. The important thing is to develop whatever talent/s we have and to use them wisely, and to invest them in things of eternal value, for we will reap what we sow.

Suggested prayer: “Dear God, thank you for the talent/s you have given to me. Please help me to know what my best talent/s is/are, to get the training I need to develop it/them, and find a place where I can use it/them to the best of my ability in the work of your Kingdom here on earth. Thank you for hearing and answering my prayer. Gratefully, in Jesus’ name, amen.”

1. Matthew 25:25-26, 28-29 (NIV).
2. Resource, Sept. Oct., 1992, p. 4.

Learning From Others

Thursday, February 25th, 2010

A king rejoices in wise servants
Proverbs 14:35 NLT

Every five years, knowledge in most major fields doubles. That means if you do not stay sharp you will be left behind. Repeating the same lessons over and over means you are not learning enough. Study those who have succeeded where you want to succeed, in order to know what to do and what not to do. Admiral Hyman Rickover said, ‘Learn from the mistakes of others; you will never live long enough to make them all yourself.’ To climb the next rung of the ladder use these three guidelines.First, do not shrink away from people whose experience and expertise are greater than your own. Peter writes, ‘God has given each of you some special abilities… use them to help each other… ‘ (1 Peter 4:10 TLB). We all struggle in certain areas; be careful lest your insecurity be misinterpreted as arrogance.Second, do not try to impress people by seeking to be their intellectual equal. If you find yourself in a discussion that intimidates you, listen carefully, ask questions, talk only about what you know and listen attentively to what you do not.

The next time you meet you will be that much further ahead.Finally, do not come to class unless you have done your homework. When God starts taking you higher, prepare your speech, your wardrobe, and your mind. Consult a trusted friend who understands where you are and where you need to go. If you cannot find one, read up until you grasp the basics. Solomon says, ‘A king rejoices in servants who know what they are doing.’ [VA add reference here?]The more you prepare yourself, the more opportunities God will give you.